"I just wanted to tell you that you’re the SHIT!..."

Written by A Dear Black Woman

Hey Girl!!! 

I just wanted to tell you that you’re the SHIT!.... The ultimate SHIT! 

The Queen of the SHIT! 

Anyone who makes you feel less than the SHIT, let them go. Learn to walk away. Learn to forgive yourself for the mistakes you’ve made in that relationship/friendship/etc. You’re no longer in that space, and it was a learning lesson.

“I just wanted to tell you that you’re the SHIT!.... The ultimate SHIT! The Queen of the SHIT! Anyone who makes you feel less than the SHIT, let them go.”

Some people won’t realize the magnitude of your absence until you’re truly absent 100%. Others won’t realize your worth at all, and you need to be okay with that. Let no one validate you. Why? Cause you’re the SHIT! You may never get the closure you want. You may never receive that apology.

Take a deep breath. Pray. Get your curls ready for tomorrow... And keep accomplishing your goals. You’re still breathing, you’re grinding, you’re good!!! Trust God’s process. Blessings to you. 

And please, and always continue to be the SHIT!!!

Love, 

Me